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2. My name is Mo, for short call me Mohammed :)

Posted by Mohammed Nazari on Tuesday, December 10, 2013, In : All about me 

2. My childhood in Dezful


Iran is a country with many different races, languages, religions and cultures; however these differences are not taken lightly and are the source of physical, verbal and political fights and disagreements. Everyone is proud of their own identity, thinking low of others. Well one way they believe of building confidence is putting others down. These get reflected in their poetry, jokes and stories. Very frequently you see people telling jokes that put the other...

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1. My name is Mo, for short call me Mohammed :)

Posted by Mohammed Nazari on Tuesday, December 10, 2013, In : All about me 

Hi, my name is Mo, for short call me Mohammed :)

and this is my story

1. Welcome to my family:  

War zone, bring your guns or your shield if you want to be more safe.

I was born in Iran, into a family with three children and two completely different parents, different in their upbringings and values. I can't tell you the year I was born so you can't guess my age, but what I can tell you is that I look way younger than I am, handsome, smrt, hardworking, motivated and more than anyth...

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Structure a happier life

Posted by Mohammed Nazari on Friday, December 6, 2013, In : Logic First - Emotion Third 
Structure a happier life

Author: Mohammed Nazari

What is Happiness?
And how do we get there?
Is happiness a multiplication of pleasure?

You can't have a home if you don't have a house, but you can have a house, that is not a home.

Logic and practicality is the structure and foundation of a house, while emotions and feelings are the furniture and the decor.

You can't be the happiest if you are not realistic. Although you can be realistic, and not the happiest.

I believe happiness can be achieved the b...

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A Personal Journey (Speech)

Author: Mohammed Nazari

Please find the link to the YouTube videos below

Part 1:

                               Part 2:

  •  It is amazing, when you have a big "goal" in mind, most other big "problems" look like small "challenges"       
  • Education in Canada is more practical than in the east which is more theoretical. After all you can find the theory in books or online, without needing to go to school.

Reasons for my failure as an employee:

1. Higher Canadian standards and sensitivity level  

2. My defensive behavior    

  •  Blaming  your behavior or action does not mean blaming you as a person
  • One for all, All for one

3. Inability to be honest with my own feelings  

  • Pride that has no basis, doesn't allow you to be honest.

4.  Canadian are too polite to be honest   

  •  If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything
  • Read between the lines


  •  Knowledge of higher/different Canadian standards and simply following versus questioning them
  •  Longer orientation
  •  Welcoming comments and asking for further explanation versus defending our self
  • Being honest with our feelings and abilities:

o   Acknowledging your weakness is a sign of honesty and makes you stronger.

  • Asking versus commenting:

o   Don't assume, ask question

o   Don't comment, ask question

o   Don't judge, ask question

o   When in doubt, ask question

o   When you think you know, ask questions to clarify

o Comments are not welcome, questions are

ยท         What kind of question?

1. Open ended and unbiased questions

2. Yes-No questions to clarify

When you have a car problem whom you ask for help? your Doctor, mother or mechanic.

Although this question seems silly, we make this mistake all the time, asking a professional question from people outside of that profession and building opinions.

  • Ask questions from the right person(s). The ones with proven success.


You will learn more from the successful people who can show you how to succeed.

Unsuccessful people can show you how not to fail the way they did.

 While the pathways to success are few, there are multiple pathways to fail.

Which one is easier and more effective to learn?

 Uncle Google and my cousin YouTube can help you with any questions.

Starting my own business

  •  In order to have a good society/business, good structure is more important than good people.
  •  The main sources of work/interpersonal problems are: communication and expectations.
  •  Interpersonal skills are not just talking nicely but much more importantly is to follow a structure and    framework, even if it is not the best structure.
  • Having a poor structure is better than having no structure

I would I would recommend that you ask my uncle and cousin, Google and YouTube, about the following:


  • Active listening
  •  Critical thinking
  • Yes-No question
  • Open ended question
  • how to be honest with oneself


After all My success and happiness depends on your success and happiness.

Let us make life better for all of us.